Hide and seek!

wow. what a movie. just have seen it. still feeling the creeps all over my body.

one of the scariest i have seen. but a must see definitely. Robert De Niro is awesome in the movie. the little too girl acts great.

something like Gothica with Halle Bery, or the Butterfly Effect 1 & 2 with Ashton Cutcher or Secret Window with Johnny Depp...

i just love a good thriller/horror movie...if you havent seen these, i highly recommend them...

a broken vase!

Have you ever broken a vase? accidentally you pushed it from the table, got to a million pieces. and no matter how much glue you put, and you find all the pieces, and put them together, it will never be the same again...it will remain a broken vase. can you ever change that?

can a lost trust be regained again? can relationship be fixed? can friendship ever be the same as before it got broken?

how do you do that? and if you are able to do that, do you forgive, or you rather forget? or neither?

two friends of mine broke up. we thought that they are the perfect couple. when people were dreaming for a great relationship, they were dreaming about them and what they have.

came out that she was cheating on him. really for long. and i can understand cheating somehow, but when he asked her, she sad no, are you crazy to ask me something like that? and continued doing it. till after a week when she confessed and asked for forgiveness.

there is nothing similar as distrust, and seeing that the other party doesnt care. no matter if you are talking about partner, friend, or relative. and then the defence mechanism turns on, pride steps in, and the vase doesnt allows to get fixed. no matter how hard you try.

and now her world is falling apart. her friends have isolated her, and are judging her. they broke up, and she doesnt love the other. she is lonely and sad.

i guess you never know how much you value and need something, till you lose it. and thats the price you have to pay when you were reckless and broke it up.

however i believe that things can be fixed. depends how and when, and will be hard, but can be done. just requires lots of energy and sacrifice. willingness and time too.

on other thought, maybe i am being too optimistic....

Two angels!

my brother has two daughters, they are 6.5y and 1.5years and usually he is leaving them at my parents place every weekend.

i enjoy to play with them. with the bigger one, Anja, first we are playing "catch the tiger"where she is the tiger and i am the hunter, so after i shot her with a sleeping dart, she is pretending that she sleeps and waking up and scaring:) my dad. then we are playing "gues the animal that i am", and then we draw and paint. every sunday morning we watch cartoons again. scooby doo, transformers, fifi the flower, captain caveman. i watch them all. we watch the discovery channel together and learn english together too.

she is always asking me about girlfriends, asking me why i go out every weekend and knows everything what is going on in the family. once, i was working two weekends in a row, and she told me to "get a life" and dont work so much:) amazing, her brain is like sponge.

with the little one, Manja, we run around and talk a lot. no matter that we cant understand eachother, we still try hard:). sometimes she gets annoyed that i cant understand what she say. it has been couple of months that she is up on her feet, and she is not sitting down anymore. and i have to go after her all the time. i am so tired after, that i must have a rest. and she doesnt need rest. then i take her out, we visit the dogs and the cats that the neighbours have in their yards, and from the fresh air she gets sleepy. good tactic. 2-3h of peace. time for me to sleep too.

they just left. they were at my home for couple of hours. and i will crash in bed now.

these are my two angels.

JoHari Window!

Hey friends,

I have activated my own personalized Johari window, and i would really appreciate if you have 2 minutes to spare and fill out the test. for the ones that dont know what the JoHari window is, here is brief explanation.

The Johari Window, named after the first names of its inventors, Joseph Luft and Harry Ingham, is one of the most useful models describing the process of human interaction. A four paned "window," as illustrated above, divides personal awareness into four different types, as represented by its four quadrants: open, hidden, blind, and unknown. The lines dividing the four panes are like window shades, which can move as an interaction progresses.

for entering the personalized test, please click here.

thanks,
Darko